I'm an avid reader of ELLE Canada, and they're the one publication whose email list I stay subscribed to. Not only do they have fun and insightful articles, but their horoscopes are always on point.
This past year has brought along many new opportunities, and in turn I have gotten to know myself a lot better. For example, working in my university's Student Affairs office has helped me to develop my leadership skills and find personal value in my work. With exams and deadlines creeping around the corner, we often become unexcited about school. Now that I'm getting more involved, I can say that the 12-hour days are truly worth it.
If you find yourself with some free time over the next few days, pull up these questions and see how they make you feel. I am feeling motivated to work harder, be nicer, and go that extra step to help those around me.
36 questions to get to know yourself better - imperfections and all
By: Gary Lewandowski, Ph.D., professor at
Monmouth University in New Jersey, and Brent Mattingly, Ph.D., assistant
professor at Ursinus College in Pennsylvania. Source Link: ellecanada.com
PART
1 – Your Essentials. Who are you today?
1. List five
adjectives or traits that describe you.
2. List five
roles that you fulfill.
3. List five of
your skills and abilities.
4. List five of
your possessions that provide insight into who you are as a person.
5. List five
life experiences that have helped define who you are.
6. List five
attributes that you think your family and closest friends would say describe
you.
GO ONE STEP FURTHER - Actually reach out to your family and several of your closest friends
and ask them to share the five traits that they think best describe you. Then
compare and contrast these lists with your own. “People who know themselves
well tend to have a list similar to what their friends said,” says Lewandowski.
“Sometimes other people can see us more accurately than we see ourselves, and
sometimes we define ourselves by how we think other people see us.”